I would like to know how do you help with problems associated with family death.
I been going through a life changing experiance. A very real, and tragic situation, i have alot of stress, anxiety, and this has effected my health.

My Nephew was killed. He was only 36.
My sister 6- months later died. She was already sick with cancer. And this took its tole on her.

At the time this happened, i was taking care of my mother.
My mother died as well. She was 80 – years old. She was in grief over my sister too.
To make things worse, my brother whom was not very close to us, got angry, and
made it clear that he did not want to help me, when mom was gone. That i would be on my own. He helped pay for a cremation, but never came for the funeral.

Since there was this problem, i could not get the funeral going for my mother.
And the family drove off , I was hung up on, and no one wanted to be apart of the process with me, to help me get through this. To this day no one has called me.

I then turned to my brother -in- law, he felt my situation. He was going to put me in his will, if i moved to where he was. I didn,t go . So later he passed away too.

I feel really left alone. And i am in school. And trying to figure out what direction i should go into. I am also angry, and When my brother-in-law died . No one called me about it. The house was sold , and i was also left out too by my neice.

I Know this is a very long e-mail, i would like to know how to break all of these pieces down, like how to get to the root of this , because there has been no way
to talk this out with them on the phone. When i sent my niece a card it was sent back, and my brother has not responded to my letter sent a year ago. Things were left with no closure for me. And a feelng of some fear to , with what will happen to me, and my life. I dont want to be stuck in the life that i am in.
Financially, and lifewise. And family means alot to me too. But where i am there isn’t family that is supportative.

Sincerely Yours, Joan Bryant